Over the last several months, I have taken note of the fact that many of my Facebook readers on Calming Your Inner Storm have indicated they are single, lonely or feeling that void in the “love” department and they don’t know how to turn it around.
I want to offer my view point on the subject as it relates to the Law of Attraction.
I know there are thousands if not millions of articles on the art of attracting a soul mate; try googling that topic next time you are bored!
I am going to keep my thoughts short and sweet and provide a tapping script to help solidify the feelings and thoughts necessary for attracting your “knight in shining armor” or your soul mate.
Most people, who are longing for a companion, constantly think about the lack of having a special someone in their life. They may even focus on the negative qualities of their past relationships. That needs to stop!
Remember that you attract what you think about or better put, “thoughts become things”.
If you think that all men are after one thing, then you will attract men that only want one thing. If you think that all the good men are taken, then you will be attracted to men already in committed relationships. If you think that all women want is your money, then you will attract gold diggers – pure and simple – you get what you focus on!
The sooner you take responsibility for your thoughts and feelings, the sooner you will attract what you want and repel what you don’t want.
Today is the day that you are going to turn that stinkin’ thinkin’ around!
The first and most important thing I want you to do is FEEL GOOD - right NOW!
Feeling good raises your vibration and starts attracting better feeling things into your life. Remember…"thoughts become things".
Do whatever it takes to feel good consistently every day. Take a walk, listen to music, paint, read, pet your dog, have coffee with a friend or watch a good movie - just do something that makes you feel good!
Next thing I want you to do is LET GO – let go of the “lack” mindset. The more you focus on what you don’t have, the more you will attract what you don’t have. "
I am so lonely" - OK, you will continue to be lonely today, tomorrow, next week, next year. You receive what you declare, pure and simple!
Remember that things will not change overnight, but with consistent positive thoughts and feeling good, the tide will change and more good things will come your way.
I want you to get a sticky note today and write “
I am so grateful I have attracted a soul mate that is perfect for me and my lifestyle!” Put that note on your bathroom mirror or somewhere that you will see it every day. Read it out loud with enthusiasm and watch what happens!
Have patience – divine timing is everything!
Here’s a tapping script to help:
If you are new to this blog and unfamiliar with the tapping process, please see the "introduction to tapping" link at the top of this page. It will provide you with everything you need to know!
Please change the words to fit your current situation - you might want to attract a princess instead!
Karate chop point:
"Even though I have no idea where my soul mate is, I love and accept myself anyway”
"Even though my heart is lonely, I accept this feeling and everything it means to me”
"Even though I feel like I might be alone forever, I know I don’t need another person to make me feel complete”
Round One:
EB: Where is my knight in shining armor?
SE: I am so lonely right now
UE: I’m afraid I will be single forever
UN: Time is running out
CH: I’m not getting any younger
CB: All the good men are taken
UA: There has to be one more left out there for me
HD: Does he know I am looking for him?
WR: Maybe, just maybe, he is looking for me…..
** Now take a deep breath or two and proceed to the second round of tapping**
Round Two:
EB: I am open to trying something new to turn my love life around
SE: What if I find something fun to focus on every day, even if it is for a few minutes
UE: I promise not to dwell on what I don’t have any more
UN: I am open to letting go and trusting the process
CH: I know I am exactly where I am supposed to be at this point in my life
CB: Every day that goes by is one day closer to finding my soul mate
UA: I choose to relax and stay calm
HD: I am finally taking charge of my life
WR: I am getting excited!
** Now take a deep breath or two and proceed to the third round of tapping**
Round Three:
EB: I forgive myself and anyone else in my past who may have contributed to this loneliness
SE: I am taking responsibility for my thoughts and feelings
UE: I refuse to be a victim any more
UN: I am attracting a soul mate right now who will love me unconditionally
CH: I am willing to be patient and wait for someone who deserves me
CB: I can't wait...
UA: But, I choose to relax and trust in a higher power
HD: My heart is feeling lighter and happier
WR: I am feeling calm, confident and peaceful now...
**Take another deep breath and repeat as necessary**
Tapping tip:
Tapping on your middle finger heps reduce sadness, self-absorption, poor relationships, hypersensitivity.
It helps balance love, happiness and contentment
